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  • Writer's pictureLisa Neville

Valentine's Day solo Playtime

Valentine's Day is fast approaching! If you are single, you may be feeling a little out of sorts, maybe even a little depressed.

I understand! I have been there!

Being single for Valentine's Day doesn't have to be a downer. It can actually be one of the best days of the year. You get to choose your pleasure! No expectations from others..... just you!

Love yourself

Single for Valentine's Day?

Just because you're single doesn't mean you can't enjoy Valentine's Day! Treat yourself! Enjoy yourself! Love yourself!

My experience is when you are comfortable and can enjoy our own company life is much more wonderful!

Go buy yourself some flowers, your favorite wine or bourbon, your favorite chocolate, whatever you really enjoy! You will need it for playtime after dinner!

Put something on that makes you feel sexy. Yes, it is ok for you to be sexy just for you! Who doesn't enjoy feeling sexy! Fix your hair, shave, put on that make up, wear your favorite scent! While you are getting ready put on some music you enjoy. If you feel the urge to dance, do it! If you feel the urge to touch your body do it! If you feel like making love with yourself do it!

Dining alone

Enjoy Dinner

Take yourself out for a nice meal or if you like to cook do that! Take time to really enjoy your surroundings. Use your five senses.

If you are out at a nice restaurant enjoy the sounds. What do you hear? Is there music playing? Do you hear others talking? Do you hear the clatter in the kitchen? Just listen.

What do you smell? Do you smell the food when the staff walks by? Do you smell someone's cologne or perfume? Breathe in.

What do you see? Do you see others with out a partner enjoying themselves? Do you see couples enjoying a meal? What are people wearing? What colors do you see? Just look.

What do you feel? Feel the fabric of your clothing against your skin. Are you still wet from your orgasm before coming to the restaurant? Feel your napkin in your lap. How does it feel? Are you warm or is there a chill in the air? Is your glass cold from your drink? Is the glass wet with condensation? How does your drink feel in your mouth? Is it cold or warm? Just feel.

What do you taste? Did you taste yourself during your self pleasure time before coming to the restaurant? Is it still there? What does your drink taste like? Is it fruity? Is it bold? Is it sweet? What do you taste in your meal? Is it spicy? What spices do you taste? Savor your meal.

Don't skip dessert! Or, at least order it and take it home with you!

When you get home

Your night is just beginning! There is more fun to be had when you get home!

Your evening of self pleasure isn't over. Put on your favorite music, light some candles, run a nice hot bath with your favorite oil, fix yourself your favorite drink. Relax.

Keep using your 5 senses. What music is playing? How does the oil smell? How does the candle light look in the room? How does the oil feel on your body? How does your favorite drink taste?

If you want to have another orgasm, go ahead!

When getting out of the bath the fun doesn't have to stop!

Put on something sexy after getting out of the bath. A sexy nightie, sexy robe, sexy shorts whatever works for you! Maybe it is nothing at all!

Remember that dessert you bought! Maybe it is time to have that! Or, would you prefer some fruit or cheese? The great thing about being single is YOU get to choose! Enjoy the time, savor the tastes, the smells, the way the candles flicker in the room, the music, enjoy you!

Play Time! Get Naked!

Sensual food play

Stay with your 5 senses.

What do you hear? What music is playing? How does it make you feel in your body? Does it make you feel like dancing? Do you want to sing? Does it make you want to touch yourself? Do you moan as you touch yourself? Does your body make sounds when you are wet? Does your body make sounds when you are massaging your cock? Listen to your body. Give it what it needs. Listen.

That oil you used for your bath, go get it! Massage your body with it.

What do you smell? How does the oil smell? Does it smell differently on your body? Smell your drink? What flavors do you smell? Are you using scented candles in the room? How do they smell? Breathe in.

How does your body look with the oil on it? Yes, even the parts you don't like about yourself. Those are part of you. They deserve your attention. Those parts of you deserve your love and admiration. Really see them. Give those parts of you what they need. Your body is beautiful! See it.

How does your body feel? Touch every gorgeous inch of yourself. Spend extra time on the parts you enjoy, your breasts, your cock, your pussy. How does the oil feel on your body? Is it warm? Is is slick? How does it feel when you rub your breasts? How does it feel when you rub it on your cock? How does it feel when you rub it on your pussy? Are you hard? Are you wet? Feel your body. Give it what it needs. Feel.

What do you taste? Can you taste the berries you had earlier? Can you taste the dessert had? Maybe you taste the wine or bourbon? Maybe taste yourself? How do you taste? Ladies, our taste is special to us. We all taste differently. What do you taste like? Guys, your taste is special to you? Most of you use saliva when you self pleasure. You have probably tasted your special taste. Taste and savor all of you!

Valentine's Day Orgasms!

Valentine's Day is about love and adoration. When we learn to love and adore our own unique sounds, smells, expressions, sensations and tastes we become more open to being loved and adored by others.

When we love and adore ourselves we are able to give ourselves amazing orgasms. We are also able to teach others what we want during sex and how to give us amazing orgasms.

So, to end Valentine's Day for yourself..... see how may orgasms you can have and how many different ways can have them? Really feel your body. See how amazing your orgasms can be! Your future partner (if you decide to have one) will thank you!

I am the creator of my very own self and I intend to treat me like my greatest masterpiece. ~ Charlotte Eriksson

Happy Valentine's Day

My wish for you on Valentine's Day is that you find the love and pleasure in yourself that you deserve.

Happy Valentine's Day to you!

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